Ever
wonder where that saying came from about being our own worst enemy? At least
one place you'll find it is in this elegant turn of phrase:
"Very often we
are our own worst enemy as we foolishly build stumbling blocks on the path that
leads to success and happiness."
-- Louis Binstock
If there's a truer
sentiment regarding self-consciousness and nervousness about public speaking, I
don't know of it. (To bring yourself down to earth and speak with greater focus
and presence, download our cheat sheet, "How to Calm Your Nerves Before Speaking.")
Here are 4 common
myths about public speaking that, like "building our own stumbling
blocks," keep us from realizing our full potential as speakers. Equally
bad, these myths may make us avoid speaking in public, and so keep audiences
from hearing what we have to say: